Two of Eugene's previous classmates, Julia and Madison, wanted my help to create the slideshow. Watch it here and listen to some of Eugene's favorite songs.
I will never forget that day of cedar bark gathering with Eugene and Lonna.
Please post your condolences to the family and your wonderful memories or lasting impressions about this extraordinary boy in the comments.
Eugene was such a teaser. All the students know that I hate to hear that they are "bored". I have been known to actually chase them around the room if they said it. Eugene would say it at every possible moment when he saw me in the halls or outside. I always replied, "Smart people are never bored, they can always think of something to do." He was polite and reminds me so much of his dad when he was young. Mary Anne Earley
ReplyDeleteAs Darren and I have been trying to process such a tragedy, we have many times been brought to tears to think that such a sweet boy is gone. We both enjoyed visiting with Eugene. Darren and Eugene had a blast visiting the Boat School together, and after that, Eugene would often sit with the two of us during lunch and ask goofy questions as only he could! Eugene was always one of the first faces I saw in the morning at school. Often, I would be scrambling to get ready for class, but I would be stopped by Eugene so he could tell me a new joke. One thing I will never forget about Eugene is his smile. He could light up a room. I'm so thankful for the time we shared with him. I look forward to seeing his smiling face one day on the other side. For there is one thing I am sure of-He loved the Lord and treasured his faith. I was always so impressed with that. MyGene and family, our deepest condolences and prayers go out to you during this time. Darren and Erika Montgomery
ReplyDeleteEugene Jackson was a good friend of mine and I will never forget him. He was really kind and nice to me. He was the one who always made me laugh. Thanks for being such a good friend! You will always have a place in my heart and I know that you're in a better place now. -Love your brother in Christ, Mark Bondarchuk.
ReplyDeleteI've only known Eugene for a year and he was a great friend to me and everyone else and I will never forget his antics and the fun that he brought to this school and the surrounding area. He was capable of doing things like braiding paper or drawing indian-style creatures and could make a joke out of everything. I had a lot of fun trading stories with him about past experiences and will never forget the story of him ripping tree bark off trees. I also remember the day he and I became friends. He was helping me with a native american project and I learned a lot from him. I especially liked the part of his home village were Sasquatch supposedly lived. Yes, he was a great friend, had a great smile, and was the best jokester I have ever met. I will never forget him.
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Eugene Jackson was a brother, but we were really friends, he always knew how to put a smile on peoples faces. Eugene touched the hearts of many in his own special way. I know he is in a better place now and I know that everyone misses him. I miss you, brother!
ReplyDeleteEUGENE I MISS YOU. Thanks for being my friend. love you. RIP. =)
ReplyDeleteIf anyone knows when Eugene's birthday is, please post it. It is the one thing I never really learned about him.
ReplyDelete-LJ
It's at the beginning! It says, "10/7/97 - 10/27/12
DeleteThanks. :)
DeleteEugene was a very good friend. He always was funny and made everyone lauph at school and on brake.Eugene was awsome and nice to me and I wish he was still here in school with everyone. He would always have a smile on his face when he came to school and that made me happy :). I rilly wish he was here. Thankyou Eugene for being and awsome and nice friend to me! Olena Mokhnach.
ReplyDeleteI've known Eugene for two years. He was always kind and generous. He was always willing to help. He was always smiling and ready to joke around. I'll never forget his smile and the smiles that he brought others. I pray that he knew how much he was loved. He will always have a special place in my heart. In Christ, LIbby.
ReplyDeleteEugene I will truely miss you. You were like a brother to me, I will never forget you. I was so Blessed by God to know you and have you as a part of my life, you always knew how to make me laugh and make my day better when it wasn't going well, You had a good heart and you cared for others. Most importantly you Loved the Lord. I will never forget you, I love you brother. My thoughts and Prayers go out to your family during this tough time. Proverbs 3:5-6
ReplyDeleteEugene knew how to light up a room with his smile. He always seemed to have a positive mood about things and was nice and a true gentleman to everybody. He will be dearly missed, and was loved dearly. It'd be great to see him one day again with God.
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Eugene was such a bright and just an amazing person to go to school with. He always came with a smile on his face and was a very polite person. He will re greatly missed here at Valley View. We all loved him very much and want him back. One of the experiences of many that I had with Eugene was when I felt my shoes at home, he told me that he would bring me a pair the next day. Oh how that will stay with me. It may seem like it isn't a big deal, but me it was. He was such a kind and loving young man. Who would never hurt a fly. He would never miss a day of school without reason. I always remember him playing volleyball with us on break. My heart is in so much pain as I write this because he really did mean the world to all of us and me. Such a great guy. For those that are going through the same was I. May God give you peace in your hearts and minds. God knows that you are in pain, He is a allmighty God. Even if it doesn't seem fair, God has a reason behind it, that we may not know. I remember him saying how he was going to tryout for the basketball team this year. Oh how I wish he was still going to tryout. I miss you Eugune and love you in Christ. You were a inspiration to me and to all the kids at our school and I hope you knew that. God bless you and everyone who will be reading this. - Your sister in Christ
ReplyDeletehe was a very good person.i didnt know him very well because he was moved away.he was funny.always had something new to say.he will always be remembered.we love u.and god bless to his parents.take care.r.i.p eugene
ReplyDeleteEugene was a very nice person to be around he made everyone smile. He made lots and lots of funny jokes and was just good person to be around. I wish he could still be here but he is in a better place.-Your brother in Christ.
ReplyDeleteI hate the term "R.I.P" because when someone goes to be with the Lord, they aren't resting. Their celebraiting being with the Creator, meeting up with old friends and relitives, and talking to God! Eugene, I really hope you're having a great time up there! As you enjoy this beginning of eternity in peace and joy, just remember that we all love you so much and are missing you're awesome smile and silly shinanigans! You are such a teriffic friend! I can't wait to see you again someday! P.W.J!! (Party With Jesus)
ReplyDeleteI've heared alot about this kid from LJ and I even met him once. I don't know much about him, besides knowing that he was a great person and a great friend. So long Eugene.
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I don't know who's joking around, but don't use a name like that, okay? It's kind of disrespectful.
Delete-LJ
It's okay, LJ; I don't think Eugene would mind a few avatars, but you rock for caring about respect.
DeleteYou were awesome Eugene! Love ya man! Hope to see you soon!
ReplyDeleteEugene was a very funny nice gentleman, and was always happy and making funny jokes. And now I just wish that I had more time to get to know him. Eugene, you WILL be deaply missed! See you on the other side my freind :)
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Oh Eugene, I have so many memories even though I only knew you for two years. I remember all the paper ninja stars you made for me. I still have them. :) I still play with the wooden sword you gave me. I also remember getting to talk to you after school. Sometimes we were outside sitting on the benches, or in the class room, or even in the lunch room. But no matter where we were talking, you made me laugh. If I had a bad day, you would make me smile after school. Thank you so much! I will have those memories for the rest of my life, and they will always make me smile. I miss you so much, but since life is like a vapor, soon evough we will both be in heaven praising God together.
ReplyDeleteJunior. I always called him Junior. What i appreciated most about him was how perceptive he was. He knew when someone was being straight with him or feeding him a line, and he would let it be known if someone was full of BS. He was independent, generous, and a rebel. I am happy to have known him, and grateful to have called him my friend.
ReplyDeleteJunior, I will miss you.
Rio
Eugene was such a friendly guy with such a big heart. I usually don't talk much but Eugene would always try to strike a conversation with me. That really meant alot to me. He would always greet me every morning with a big smile. Eugene, I will truly miss you. You've made such an impact on many lives. My prayers are with Eugene's family. May God give them strength and comfort through this hard time.
ReplyDeleteHi Eugene. It was great to know about you. I wanna say goodbye and have a great time with the Lord. I'll see you sometime again my friend. -Your friend Justin.
ReplyDeleteTo all of your friends and family you will be truly missed. I did not get to know you however, I did know your family, and if you were anything like them which they said you were just that, a "Junior" you must have been a pretty awesome kid! I imagine there is no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. My heart and prayers go out to you at this most difficult time. - Cynthia Centeno
ReplyDeleteI met Eugene when he was just beginning to grow tall like a Cedar Tree! I will always remember his big, bright, engaging smile - Eugene could bring joy to an entire room!
ReplyDeleteI will also remember his fabulous curiosity about the world. I would just crack me up, because Eugene would grumble and grumble about science class - how he just HATED science! And then he would proceed to talk about all these wonderful things that he had just learned... about rare creatures in the animal world... and about strange, new discoveries in the universe... and about how all sorts of inventions worked... It would make me laugh, because this young man who grumbled actually had the mind of a scientist!
Eugene... there's a piece of you in my heart. I will miss you. But, most importantly, I will remember you...
Eugene, you were like a brother to me and i still can't beleive you're gone but i know that somewhere up there you're happy with old friends and family. have an awesome party my friend.
ReplyDeletep.s. give jesus a hug for me.
"p.s. give jesus a hug for me." ME TOO! :)
DeleteDon't forget me!
Delete-LJ
This tradegy is so hard for me to understand. Eugene was a friend and a young man that had a wide range of thoughts as well as ideas. He had a smile that everyone enjoyed seeing each day. I loved the jokes as well as the experiences that he ahared with me. One of the many things that I will never forget is when the school had an outside event Eugene would come to me and say, "Jim would you keep an eye on me so I don't get in big trouble?", I always said yes, I think that is why we became good freinds. MyGene and family my condolences and prayers go out top you.
ReplyDeleteEugene, you are now with God and can do all the things you wish without any one keeping an eye on you all will be good. We will never forget you and I am sure you will look down on us and never forget us.
Jim Smith
I had the pleasure and privilege of meeting Eugene back in Spring 2010 and then again in 2011 when I came to La Push through the UW's Pipeline Project-Environmental Alternative Spring Break program. He was an intelligent and inspiring young man who was always engaged in our class discussions. Even though my time in La Push was short, I'm truly grateful to have learned so much from this young individual who will be in my thoughts forever.
ReplyDeleteEugene, I will never forget your big smile that bought life to the classroom and the people around you. Until we meet again...
Chelsey Jay
I loved Eugene just as he was.Cute-Smart-Kind-Energetic- and totally full of love for his family and everyone that he met. We spent alot of time together, talking and sharing frequently in my office at QTS. He will always have a part of my heart. I plan one spending enternity with him and Jesus some day.Hope to see you all there! John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that who so ever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life WOW!!!
ReplyDeleteI remember when he took me aside in Junior High and told me, "Cameron, you have been such a great friend and always have been there when I was in need of help. You are now called my brother." I remember that as if it was yesterday.
ReplyDeleteLike Kathleen said, "Party With Jesus"
I love ya man!
He kind of said the same thing to me.
DeleteI only met Eugene on a few occasions- he was sweet, smart and funny. I was saddened when I heard about his death. My deepest condolences to his family, friends, teachers and members of his community that knew him. I hope you find some solace over time.
ReplyDeleteMiss you forever Eugene.
ReplyDeleteEugene was one of the nicest guys I knew. He always got people to laugh on their worst days; his smile lit up the room! He some how always had tons of energy in him no matter what was going on in his life that we didn't know about. Causing a horrible tragedy happen to him. I am so greatful to have met him and have him as a friend. Even though I havent known him for a long amount of time- I will miss him dearly. You have a better life now with God. My prayers are with Eugene's family. God Bless. -Cassie Mcmurtry
ReplyDeleteEugene had an awesome smile! It was a perfect gateway to his personality. Thoughts and prayers for all family members who are grieving at this time. John 20:21 Again Jesus said, "Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you."
ReplyDelete(from Cynthia Williams & Family) Eugene "Jr" is who we knew him as. Has such a loving and kind-hearted spirit. I remember one Summer when he and his late Grandma Bibbs went to Forks to do laundry. Jr noticed a lot of people travelling together cause they were busy with one of the Canoe Journeys. He sad "Hey Grandma, where are all the Indians going?" She told him they were travelling with the Canoe Journeys. He said, "I want to go! Can we go?" Of course they didnt bother going back to the Rez...they just kept going.after all, they had their clothes! Now theyre together again travelling on their journey. But we will see them again. Cheddy and I were just talking about this the other day. Although we can't make sense of what happened, may we find comfort in knowing we will see each other again. I would like to share something from the Bible, God always knows just what to say...Isaiah 41:10 Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.
ReplyDeleteIm not really sure what to say, I have thought alot about my time with Eugene, and it kind of hurts to talk about him. However, I want to say that that he was a great guy, who wasnt always appreciated like he should have been. I used to hang out with him at the library and we would laugh at funny things we saw on facebook and youtube. We would walk to the little drugstore and buy candy, or just hang out at his place. We would talk about school, and television and girls. He was always happy with me, and I always loved hanging out with him. People sometimes made fun of him at school, which upsets me now, but I didnt really notice at the time. People didnt really know what a great guy he was, but I did and I miss him. People tell me I need to get over this terrible thing, but it's just not as easy as that and they should know it if they've ever lost a great friend. To Eugene I just hope he knows I loved him like a real brother and I know I will see him again. -Coleman Smith
ReplyDeleteI also have had a really hard time thinking about what I would write. This post made me extremely happy and sad, happy that Eugene had a good friend with similar humor and interests in the world.... and sad that such a funny, passionate person was driven to... I still don't know what to say. I really appreciate people sharing their memories of Eugene on this blog for the families to read when they are ready.
DeleteThank you, Coleman, for your candor. I bet you really brought out the best in Eugene. He was hurting, but maybe not when he with you. Friends like that are very special.
Jr used to live with me for a couple years< I think I was 10 and he was 7 when he moved in. I remember we ALWAYS fought but were always together. Never apart, me and him; best friends forever. Always out and about causing some heck :). We would always be wrestling, building forts, playing at the park and having tickling fights whenever one of us were too mad at each other (that happened a lot)
ReplyDeleteEven though Jr. is my first cousin, I still think of him as a little brother. I miss him, Ive always missed him. Never got to see him much after he moved away, but when I did it was special. EVERY single time we seen each other he would alway greet me with that cheesy smile and put his elbow on my shoulder and say "whats up cuz you're tall" BUT with in the last few years its been "Whats up cuz you're short" ahaha he was always crackin jokes. :) Miss you Jr! -Kayla Jackson
I am uncertain as to how to begin and the irony is that I teach this stuff- I’m supposed to know how to write ( I’m an English teacher for God’s sake)but this is so hard for me because I just don’t want to write about Eugene I want to convey the essence of Eugene who he was and I want to write in a way so that you can ‘see” who he was and how he impacted(in a good way) everyone that he came into contact with.
ReplyDeleteI was Eugene’s teacher when I first started at the Quileute Tribal School – and all the kids tried to warn me about Eugene- not because he was bad but because he was a bundle of energy – constantly in motion- The one thing I must tell you about Eugene is you must know how to say his name – it was YOUgene… emphasis on the YOU.
And well he was funny. Eugene loved scissors and you may think well okay – whatever—but no he LOVED scissors – he would take my regalia scissors and cut paper into about ten thousand small, minute pieces and then well then he threw all the pieces in the air and just let them fall – it was like falling snow right there inside of my classroom- Thank God for Mr. Hoover of the vacuum cleaner family – because then we would just Hoover vac up all the little pieces.
At this point you may think – dang it Konig just hide the scissors – but to be perfectly honest I couldn’t hide the scissors – there were just too many of them and they were so necessary and needed as we were constantly using them for projects and making regalia – so I had to – we had to- resign ourselves that Eugene was going to get ahold of scissors but that was okay –we liked watching him make confetti and then watching it fall.
One time we were working on math or reading and I was working with a small group and I had my back turn to Eugene (already you are probably thinking- no Konig don’t turn your back on Eugene, just like in the horror movies when you know – what’s gonna happen before it happens) but I was so intent on my group and we were working so hard and Eugene took the scissors and cut a hunk of my hair off- right in the back of my head right smack on top of the crown of the head–and the funny thing is I didn’t even notice it - I didn’t notice until someone asked me, “Hey Konig, what did you do to your hair?” To which I replied, “ Nothing – it’s the same old hair.” But then I looked in the window’s reflection and the whole back of my hair was standing on end – kinda like how grass grows and I thought Oh my God EUGENE!!! Eugene cut my hair!!! Well the kids laughed, and I laughed , and Eugene laughed and I told him, “Eugene, you are so lucky mister, lucky, that hair grows back…”
But that is exactly how it was with Eugene – you couldn’t get mad at him because – well you loved him so much.
Being a California girl I was/ am always cold in La Push---I was known for wearing parkas as I never could get warm enough--- and of course Eugene was NEVER cold- he was always in motion and moving so he was never cold. In winter time in La Push you tend to bundle up so much that we don’t recognize each other by our physical attributes but rather you recognize people by their coats- BIG MISTAKE and this was something, that, being from California, I didn’t realize it until it was too late.
ReplyDeleteOn some days I would wear Eugene’s coat – he was known for just leaving it on the floor, in the cafeteria, on the playground, so I would pick it up and wear it (This served two purposes, one, I would no longer be cold and two, Eugene wouldn’t lose his coat. ) Well what ended up happening is that the kids would yell YOUgene thinking I was Eugene, and Eugene would yell, “WHAT!!!”and come running from another direction and I would say “yes?” because they were addressing me thinking I was Eugene in his coat—and this became really confusing so by the end both Eugene and I would answer to his name Eugene. And Eugene would just laugh and say well that will teach you to wear my coat!!!
I miss Eugene.
Eugene and Mariah and I would always go to Ms. White’s house and go horse backing riding- Eugene loved to ride the horses – he was really good at it- completely fearless- and one time we went and (God forgive me) but those poor horses – well they needed their stalls mucked out. It wasn’t raining per se just muddy and mucky and a bit of a drizzle=- you know the kind that gets you good and wet---- But there was just so much- there was so much poop in the horse stalls- so I asked Eugene, ”Eugene go get the wheel barrel and help me – see if we two can muck out these stalls.”
ReplyDeleteEugene said, “Are you CRAZY? We need a tractor to muck out all that shi$#>”
“Nah, it’s not that bad Eugene – and I don’t have a tractor but I have these two shovels, we can do it.” (But it WAS bad).
So, being the good sport that he is, Eugene went and got the wheel barrel and we tried and well would fill up the wheel barrel many times and then we tried to move all the poop from one side of the pasture to the other and we were slipping and sliding along and moving poop from one place to the other – and he would pluck it and flung it into the wheel barrel and before you know it I had mud/poop on my face and in my hair and I was laughing and screaming “EUGENE!!”
And he smiled and said, “I told you we needed a tractor.” .. and boy oh boy did we smell bad (notice in this story that Mariah DID NOT help us muck out the stalls--- she said, “No, you guys can do that.” And she sat herself on the fence and watched us – and laughed so hard and later said, “What did you think was gonna happen Konig? As we (Eugene and I) were all covered in mud.
I truly believe that there walk upon this Earth angels among us,– and we don’t necessarily know who they are – I know Eugene was one of them – sometimes you could see it in his smile- and hear it in his voice and sometimes you would catch a small glimpse of his wings- they weren’t the beautiful white variety of feather wings – they were mottled, feathers askew and gray in color, a motley mess but one that is divine too – but I know in my heart he was an angel- Eugene could see into your heart- you couldn’t bull shit Eugene – he would call you on it –that is just how he was.
ReplyDeleteSometimes Eugene just didn’t want to complete his class work and I would ask him to get out his reading book or find his pencil and he would say he couldn’t find it – and I would go to this desk and try to find his classroom supplies- Eugene did NOT like this – his desk was HIS desk. One time he went to my desk and grabbed the tape – NOT Scotch tape or masking tape – no, Eugene got the heavy duty packing tape and taped his desk shut so that I couldn’t get his books out of it-
And when that didn’t work he got me good. He created a slimy, green, sticky goop and placed that in the back of his desk and when my hand wandered in there to take out his reading books, I touched the goop that was slimy and sticky and I will tell you now – I have NEVER, EVER put my hand in any desk since!!!
When Mariah told me about what happened to Eugene I cried- and I don’t care how old you are but when your heart is breaking into ten thousand pieces you call your mom and dad – so I called my dad – but he wasn’t home- because he already passed away and no longer walks among us, so my mom answered, and I asked her “Do you think Daddy can take care of Eugene for me just until I get to heaven?” Do you think Daddy can do this small favor for me ?” and my mother said, “Yes—of course your dad can watch him.” And I know my dad is watching Eugene for me.
ReplyDeleteI made Eugene a wreath – with cedar roses- because you see when I had Eugene he was amazing when he worked with cedar- He would crank out 100 cedar roses in like 10 minutes- and I am NOT lying- you can ask Maddie, or Julia, or Mariah- that kid could do stuff like that and I thought – oh no who is going to make the cedar roses for Eugene- and well I decided I would – I wept when I was making them – and I thought about Eugene and all the things our class did together- Now I must tell you that I haven’t made cedar roses since I left La Push – 2011 and your hands kind of forget what they are supposed to do – and I would wind the cedar and tie the raffia (I couldn’t find my sinew) and don’t you know it would break apart and I would lose the rose and I swear I could hear Eugene laughing – I could hear him laughing at me- at my clumsiness.
One time we , Eugene included, went Indian tea picking, and this was an annual event that we do with Miss Ann because the Elder’s from our community count on the Indian Tea as it has many medicinal properties. So Miss Ann would teach us the proper way to pick the Indian Tea, and we would pray beforehand and offer our thanks – and well we would pick the Indian Tea. Now normally, there are a few classes that go Indian Tea picking, mine, middle school and high school kids – so you have about 15-20 people picking Indian Tea and we usually go when it is wet out so you have to bundle up – and kids complain because it is cold, and you are outside and you go for hours at a time- but I will tell you Eugene was a machine-- that little guy could pick Indian Tea—kid you not!!! He worked so hard and picked so much tea – he collected more Indian Tea than all of us combined!!! Miss Ann could not believe it!! I could not believe it but that’s the truth. He had giant bags full of Indian tea!
ReplyDeleteAnother event that we used to do was going berry picking and then making jam and jellies from all the berries. Our class would go with Miss Connie and Miss Shelly and we would pick all the berries, usually blackberries and then come back to the Akalat and cook the berries into jams and jellies. Well, I always thought how fun berry picking would be and the kids thought so as well – and to be perfectly honest the picking part is fun it is the cooking and canning part that is hot, hard work. We made over 100 jars for our elders but we had no idea how hard it would be – because when you cook the berries you must constantly be stirring the pot and our arms just about fell off from all the stirring --- but the ONE person that saved us was Eugene – he could stir and stir and never let the berries get scorched on the bottom - he was so energetic and so fearless that it is because of him and Juriel that we even had all the jars of berries that we did
I am thankful for knowing and spending so much time with Eugene – There is so much that we did as a class and as a school and Eugene was such an integral part of it all. I am forever going to miss his little face and his little smile- I have a class picture of him (I will have to find it to post it) and it was Halloween – exactly to the day – and we had to take our school class pictures and Eugene placed these little Dracula teeth in his mouth and smiled and you can see the teeth in the picture – and it was so perfect because that is just how he was – always making us laugh and playing jokes.
ReplyDeleteOne time we went cedar picking because it is an annual tradition that we do with Miss Ann, and Rio, and Crystal. We do this in an effort to harvest cedar for our elders that need it to make baskets, or gifts, or anything else. And I had never been cedar bark picking – so I accidently was NOT dress the right way. I wore very expensive jeans (and ruined them with yellow stains that Eugene said look like I peed my pants ) and I wore the wrong shoes that kept slipping on the mossy, boggy logs, and spiders crawling all over me because I kept walking into their webs, and then in about 10 minutes of cedar picking I got about 100 blisters on my hands and Eugene would just laugh at me and say, “Dang it, Konig…. Button it!!! We have work to do.” SO I had to stop complaining, and get to work and find the strength inside of myself to keep going. Luckily for me Mr. Zantua had duct tape (no band aids, no gauze- no he gives me TAPE) to wrap my hands so that I could continue to work in spite of the blisters (Duct tape really does work wonders) and Eugene teamed up with Rio and they stripped so much cedar and did an amazing job our elders were so very proud.
I will miss Eugene and will probably miss him forever.
I will miss Eugene and will probably miss him forever.
ReplyDeleteThe last time I spoke to him was on Facebook not too long ago. He chatted me up and I answered him thinking I was “talking” to Mygene (Eugene’s dad). The chat went something like this:
Eugene: Hey Konig.
Me: Hey Mygene - what are u up to?
Eugene: Oh I’m here at Drum group.
Me: Oh fun. Who with? Who is all there?
Eugene: Oh I am here with Miss White.
Me: What?
Eugene: Yeah we came together.
Me: What? Like on a date? I thought she was married?
Eugene: She is.
Me: WHAT???
Eugene: R U CRAZY… She’s too old.
Me: okay
Eugene: I am only 14.
Me: EUGENE… I thought you were your dad… why did you answer to Mygene?
Eugene: Hah hah… just to trick you.
Me: That is NOT funny Eugene…That’s how rumors start!! But it was funny
But that was and that is, how Eugene was --- always finding humor in everything. I am so glad I had the time I had with him…. It was a gift I will always treasure. I just don’t understand why… why he would take himself away like this … it is so final… and maybe, just maybe, it isn’t for me to understand.. maybe I should just treasure the time I had with him… treasure that, honor that, and not ask why.
ReplyDeleteI wish I could go back and chose all over again – chose to say something of value or meaning – in order to change this outcome because I had no idea he was in so much pain --- I wish I could push rewind or repeat and do this over again --- I would have told Eugene I love him to please don’t hurt himself, please don’t leave – he is so important – he is so necessary and needed, but I didn’t say that and I can’t push a magic button and get do overs - life just doesn’t work that way. I didn’t know the last time was going to be the last time. I am so sorry.
Much Love to you- from me-
Pearla Konig
Having the privilege to work as a Para educator for the Tribal School included working with Eugene. The duties such as helping with school work or racing back from lunch was always interesting. The personalities of these young men and women were strong. The kids I worked with had grown up together and knew much about one another. Eugene was the type of student who befriended almost everyone and knew much about the most random of subjects. He was so simple yet complex. Any physical competition of any sort, he dominated. Eugene was messy, articulate, and lived in the moment. Eager to be fed knowledge and then to analyze it was fun. Eugene was loved and admired by many. My deepest condolences to his family.
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I knew Eugene for a few years and had him over to the house. He usually came with Indian tea leaves for me. I still have some. He once left a bag in the kitchen as a surprise for me, written on the bag was, "For Oma". I looked inside and it was the hulls of his sunflower seeds. He always made me laugh and his smile was like no other. I love him for the kind and fun-loving soul he was and will continue to be in our memories. I miss you, Eugene, and you will always have a very special place in my heart.
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Migene and Marjorie My heart goes out to you and your family. I will always
ReplyDeleteremember giving Eugene rides back to school when i was working at the clinic. we always had something to talk about. I will miss him.
Mygene & Tj sincerest condolences to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. You will see him again someday in Heaven. May God give you peace in knowing he's holding him in his arms right now.
ReplyDeleteI am sending Love and Prayers to the Jackson family. May our Creator hold you in His arms and bring comfort as only He can.
ReplyDeleteI am a mom, to another mom, I am so sorry for the grief, And heaviness in your heart. You Will be reunited with your baby, until then I pray for comfort for you And your family. with Christian love, a mom in forks.
ReplyDeleteI am sending Love and Prayers to the Jackson family. May our Creator hold you in His arms and bring comfort as only He can.
ReplyDeleteMigene and Marjorie, my heart aches for you. I'm holding you in prayer. Melissa
ReplyDeleteMy sincerest condolences to the Jackson family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. You will see him again someday in Heaven. May God give you peace in knowing he's holding him in his arms right now.
ReplyDeletei miss you like crazy!! i still cant believe its been almost four years since you've been gone. i cant wait to see you on the other side one day. you were the best cousin anyone could've asked for. i love you so much !!
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